Children do not yet understand what is good and what is bad, and how they should behave. They simply do what they want. If a child behaves incorrectly, it is important to correct them and teach them how to act, rather than burdening them with guilt, which can lead to complexes. A person who was often shamed in childhood may fear expressing themselves, worry about the opinions of others, which suppresses their creative potential and causes dissatisfaction. I want my children to grow up feeling free internally. Therefore, I never blame them, even if someone thinks I am a bad mother for it. When my three-year-old son cries, I tell him, “Well, cry, cry. Men cry sometimes too.” He feels my support and quickly calms down. When my older daughter (she is b years old) insults others or does something inappropriate, I suggest that she stop and think about where such behavior will lead: will the person she is hurting respect her more, or will they start to dislike her? Usually, she agrees that teasing is not worth it to avoid making enemies. “1000 Secrets”.
